Here are some important Italian customs and etiquette tips to keep in mind while visiting Italy:
Greetings
Handshakes: A firm handshake is common when meeting someone for the first time. Close friends may greet with cheek kisses (two or three).
Titles: Use formal titles (Signore, Signora) followed by the last name unless invited to use first names.
Dining Etiquette
Table Manners: Wait for the host to start the meal. Keep hands on the table (but not elbows) and avoid resting them on your lap.
Wine: It’s customary to wait for the host to pour wine. If you’re offered a toast, maintain eye contact and drink after the host.
Pasta: Don’t cut pasta with a knife. Use a fork to twirl it against the plate.
Tipping: A small tip (5-10%) is appreciated but not obligatory. Check the bill for a “coperto” (cover charge).
Dress Code
Smart Casual: Italians generally dress well. Aim for a smart casual look, especially in cities and restaurants.
Church Visits: Dress modestly when visiting churches. Shoulders and knees should be covered.
Personal Space and Touch
Proximity: Italians often stand closer when talking than people from other cultures. Don’t be alarmed by the closeness.
Gestures: Italians are expressive with their hands. Familiarize yourself with common gestures, but avoid overly dramatic gestures that might seem rude.
Social Etiquette
Punctuality: Being on time is important for business meetings. For social gatherings, arriving a bit late is acceptable.
Gifts: When invited to someone’s home, it’s polite to bring a small gift (e.g., wine, flowers). Avoid bringing chrysanthemums, as they are associated with funerals.
Conversation
Topics: Italians enjoy discussing family, food, and travel. Avoid sensitive topics like politics and religion unless you know the person well.
Compliments: Complimenting food or a host’s home is always appreciated.
Shopping Etiquette
Greeting Staff: Always greet shopkeepers when entering and leaving a store. Use “Buongiorno” (Good morning) or “Buonasera” (Good evening).
Waiting Your Turn: Be patient and wait your turn in line; cutting in is considered rude.
Understanding and respecting these customs and etiquette will enhance your experience in Italy and help you connect better with locals. Enjoy your trip!